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For people who say yes too fast

Say no.
Stay kind.
Sleep fine.

300 exact words for the moments you always say yes to. Find yours in ten seconds.

Get The Kind No from $19 · one payment · works on any phone
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Your boss
You
KIND NO
ahh.

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One of 300 in the app.

Three signs you need this.

1

You rehearse the no.

An hour of practice in your head. Then they ask, and "sure" comes out in one second.

2

You explain too much.

Four sentences of reasons for a simple "I can't." They still push, because you left the door open.

3

You replay it at 2 a.m.

Even when you finally say no, you lie awake wondering if they are mad at you now.

Type what happened. Get the words.

The Kind No lives on your phone, so it is there in the hallway, in the car, in the bathroom before you answer the text.

  • 300 scripts, 12 parts of life
  • 3 tones each: soft, clear, final
  • 10 seconds from "help" to "sent"
Family · Money · Soft

"I love you, and I'm not able to lend money right now. Can I help you make a plan instead?"

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Family · Money · Clear

"I'm not lending money anymore, to anyone. It's not about you."

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Family · Money · Final

"My answer is still no. I'm here for you in other ways."

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Starter

the words
$19
  • The Kind No app
  • 300 exact scripts
  • 12 parts of life
  • Soft, clear and final tone for each
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Full

the words + the habit
$39
  • Everything in Starter
  • 30-Day Guilt-Free No program, 5 minutes a day
  • The 2 a.m. Replay: stop overthinking after a no
  • "Am I being selfish?" check
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Complete

the words + the habit + practice
$59
  • Everything in Full
  • Practice mode: they push back, you answer
  • 60 printable pocket cards
  • New scripts every month
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